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by Barbara A. Draughn
I have been married to a wonderful, hardworking man for twenty years. We have
raised seven children together, his, mine and ours. He has worked hard everyday
to support this family; sometimes working two jobs. A few years ago he was diagnosed
with a serious lung disease, but he didn't let that slow him down; he kept on
working the best he could.
In January of 2005 the doctor told us he probably wouldn't make it through
the summer. I have always believed in the power of prayer, so I began to pray
that the Lord would give him rest from his labors. What happened next even caught
me off guard; it certainly wasn't what I expected to happen, but God knew what
he needed.
I was sitting at home by myself when the phone rang, it was the local hospital,
they called to inform me that my husband (Larry) had fallen off of a porch,
and that I needed to get to the hospital. When I got to the hospital it was
worse then I had thought, He hadn't fallen off of a porch, someone had shoved
him backwards off of a porch. His back was broken in four places; he had a head
injury, and several broken ribs. He was already on oxygen because of the lung
disease, he was in severe pain, and the doctors could only give him so much
pain medicine because of his breathing problems. So for twenty-four hours he
laid awake in pain; they couldn't get him stable.
Worn out, I had gone home for a little rest, leaving some of our kids with
him. At 11:00 p.m. the hospital called, saying they were going to put him on
life support and take him to I.C.U. We were devastated, waiting to hear something
good from the doctors; but it was all bad news. For almost a week we worried,
cried, and lived at the hospital, watching everything the doctors and nurses
did to Larry, not knowing if he would live or die. It was hard on all of us;
we felt like our lives were on hold. We were afraid to leave the hospital for
any length of time because they had him on the critical list. He was hooked
up to every machine imaginable, a ventilator, IVs, monitors for his heart and
blood pressure. There were so many things hooked to him that we could hardly
get near him and this was hard because everyone wanted to touch him and show
him that he was loved.
On the following Sunday they scheduled spinal surgery. The amazing thing about
this was that they didn't usually do this kind of surgery on a Sunday. (We had
prayed that God would send good doctors and nurses to care for Larry). They
had called in a top spinal surgeon and there were all kinds of specialists and
wonderful nurses caring for him.
The morning of the surgery we gathered around his bed and began to pray, there
were about twelve of us praying when all of a sudden peace fell over the room
and I knew he would be all right. We all knew there were angels surrounding
us. The Lord had given me a scripture to pray: James 5:15, "And the prayer
of faith shall heal the sick, and the Lord shall raise them up and if there
has been any sin committed, it shall be forgiven." I read this scripture
constantly over Larry the whole time he was in the hospital.
The surgeon said it would take four hours for the surgery, as they had to remove
two shattered disks in the middle of his back, and then replace them with rods
and pins. They were going to allow the two fractured places in his neck to heal
on their own. The morning of the surgery there were churches all over praying
for my husband, they informed me that they had him on an Internet prayer line.
As we waited for surgery to end strangers came to us with a word from the Lord
that really lifted us up. These were little love notes from the Lord.
Larry's surgery lasted only two hours instead of four. He was in I.C.U. for
a month on life support, but God sent the best doctors and nurses to care for
him. After surgery he just got better and better. He had to wear a neck brace,
and body brace for three months, but he got to come home after two months in
the hospital. He was in a wheel chair when he came home, but quickly got up
and started walking.
The Lord knew what he needed to do to heal my husband's body. He is still with
us today, a whole year latter; he doesn't need to use his oxygen through the
day now and the Lord healed a lot of other things he had wrong while he was
laying in that hospital bed for two months. He got the rest he needed to continue
to live.
Praise God for knowing what is needed, even if we can't see it for ourselves
when we're going through it. ("Through the storm we do not walk alone".)
This saying was posted on a picture in the hallway of I.C.U.; I read it everyday
as I walked to Larry's room. I look back now and can see that God was faithful
to answer my prayer over my husband. And Larry will be the first to tell you
what God did for him. He gives God all the Praise.
I learned later that the man who shoved my husband off that porch wasn't mad
at my him; Larry just happened to step up on the porch when this man came out
angry at someone inside, and he took his anger out on Larry. This young man
was sentenced for two years in prison for his actions. We went to court and
told the Judge that we didn't have any hard feelings and that we had forgiven
this man. God wants us to forgive and pray for those that hurt us. We continue
to keep this young man in our prayers. |